Nov 20 2009
Do you Facebook with Students?
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I’m certain there are plenty who would disagree with me, but my personal social networking policy is to follow these two rules:
1. Accept any friend requests from students, but never initiate the request.
2. Never say or show anything on Facebook that I wouldn’t want said or shown in class.
I’ve been doing it this way for around a year now and it has worked out well. Before we get too far with this question, let me clarify that I teach college students. I’m not sure if I would have the same opinion if I were a K-12 teacher although I’m inclined to think it also works for teachers of high school students nearing college age. That’s a whole other topic that merits its own discussion another time, and there are many more factors in play for the public school teacher to consider. This is mainly about my opinions on Facebooking with college students, although I’m not sure that my opinion would vary too far from this even for teachers of High School students.
“Net Gen” students can benefit greatly from having responsible social networking modeled for them.
The only college aged kid I’ve ever spoken to about irresponsible drunken-party photo posting so far is someone who posted & tagged my niece at a party. I didn’t know this person, and they didn’t know I was able to see it either so it was a great teachable moment. Basically I told them it’s a bad idea to put compromising photos online, but a really bad idea to identify and index the people in them. I can’t remember if I let the niece in on that conversation now, but looking back I probably should have. I think that “Net Gen” students can benefit greatly from having responsible social networking modeled for them. Being Facebook friends with some of them helps me to confirm this notion. Anyway, I got no replies back from anyone involved in the incident I described and can only hope that I made the point perfectly clear that there is no reasonable expectation of privacy online, even in Facebook.
To me the benefits outweigh the risks because my students can see what is essentially an extension of me, outside of the classroom. It provides an alternate method of contacting and interacting with me. Not only is this good for retention of existing students, but also good for maintaining contact with graduates after they move on to their after-college careers. However, if you’re uncomfortable with what your students might learn about you in this setting, then I’d certainly advise against social networking with students. But right now I’m not overly concerned because of rule #2. I try to monitor my online persona pretty closely which is nothing less than what we ask our students to do.




















